Im too impatient to find out my baby's sex.Any ways to relax?

I will be 16 weeks pregnant this Thursday and on Friday I have my 16 week OBGYN Prenatal visit.I am going to get AFP tests done but my doctor always does ultrasounds every visit.And like some women I am DYING to know what I am having.I am usually a very patient person but when it comes to finding out the sex of my baby (this is my first) I just cannot wait.I know I wont find out Friday and it kills me but how can I relax and stop being impatient? Any other women that were too anxious?