Before I call, just wondering if it's beneficial or a waste of my time, based on your experiences?

I would probably do two things in this situation. 1) Switch doctors!!!! He is needlessly scaring you and you don't need that!! Given what you have written, no reason yo need to automatically go with a c-section!! Find a doctor who seems to have a better bedside manner and who is more open to options. 2) Go with a midwife as well! They can be a great advocate for you on the delivery room and help you carry through with your wishes! I didn't realize they were covered here though - I think that may be a provincial thing?? What province are you in? Quebec? I believe they have really great policies on alternative care!! Best wishes!